How would you like to stay at a home of a major codependent lady host. This host in hawaii was so mentally unstable it was scary for me. She will say things so rude then immediately pull back with something like “i don’t mean it that way or this way”. Ridiculous! Host was always yelling at her child and husband. I also loved all the post notes that were all over my room and bathroom. The notes were reminders to turn off the lights, fan, don’t drop quilt onto the floor, fix your bed, be quiet, and keep door open.  One day before checking out, host asked me to leave because I wasn’t respecting her rules. This rule that I broke was coming quietly home at 11PM. A crazy host in hawaii. nightmare!